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I Am Thankful For:
Having everything prepared for the next storm
The snow holding off long enough that I could go to my weekly craft group
My library hold became available just before the storm
A cozy snow day
Homemade chili
The power stayed on again
The snowy landscape
A warm house on a cold night
When the temperatures finally reached above freezing
Feeling pretty
Planning for spring planting
Finally getting out of the house
Celebrating my grandson's birthday
February doesn’t always get much love. It’s short, usually pretty cold (at least where I live), and by this point most of us are a little tired of winter. But honestly? It can be a really good month—especially in midlife.
This is the perfect month for saying yes to the small joys. Whether you’re in the mood for something cozy, something creative, or something that gets you out of the house just enough to feel refreshed - you can find that in February. Consider this list a collection of gentle ideas. Nothing overwhelming or requiring a lot of elaborate planning. Just inspiration to help you enjoy this month in a way that feels right for you
Get Out of the House
1) Take a winter walk through a nearby park, botanical garden, nature preserve, or your own neighborhood.
2) Visit a local restaurant or coffee shop. .
3) Visit a museum or art gallery
Celebrate Valentine’s Day
4) Schedule a romantic date night with your partner in honor of Valentine’s Day. It doesn't have to be fancy, do takeout at home or make a meal together.
5) Plan a Galentine’s dinner or party with your bestie(s)
6) Have a self love day. (Get your head out of the gutter!) Turn off your notifications. Pour your favorite warm beverage, snuggle under a blanket and read a book or binge your favorite series. Treat yourself to your favorite meal or snack. Have a nice bath. Go to bed early. Treat yourself like the goddess you are!
Observe Black History Month
7) Visit a local African-American history museum, exhibit, or landmark
8) Shop at a black-owned business
9) Read a book by a black author
Hibernate at Home
10) At home movie night
11) Take up a hobby, or dedicate time to an existing one - reading, knitting or crochet, drawing or painting, puzzles are perfect for cold February evenings.
Enjoy A Lesser-Known February "Holiday"
12) Make something with Nutella (National Nutella day is Feb 5)
13) Make a homemade pizza (February 9 is National Pizza Day)
14) Treat yourself (or someone else) to some donuts on Pączki Day ( Tlusty Czwartek February 12)
15) Make a big pot of homemade chili (National Chili Day is February 27)
You don’t need to do all the things on this list. Pick what sounds fun, skip what doesn’t, and let the rest go. This month has a way of rewarding small efforts and gentle intentions, so however you choose to spend it, trust that it counts.
I Am Thankful For:
Joining a new craft group
Clean laundry
A couple of mild days before the winter storm
Homemade potato soup
British panel shows
A warm home
The power stayed on
A gorgeous sunset at the end of the storm
A sunny, but frigid day
Sunshine making the ice covered grass sparkle
The "drip drip drip" of melting ice
A little bit of a warm-up
Getting out of the house for a little while
How is everyone affected by the weekend storm managing? I have seen some pictures involving crazy amounts of snow!
We didn't have any snow accumulation here. It was an all ice event for us.
Fortunately, our power remained in the entire time. We had several flickers throughout the day. A few that had us convinced that the electricity was going out at any moment.
There are lots and lots of people in the area who weren't so fortunate. I'm hoping they have a source for heat or have electricity restored before tonight when it is supposed to get even more dangerously cold.
Today is windy and bitter cold. Keeping our fingers crossed that the wind doesn't start bringing down trees weakened by the layers of ice.
Stay safe and warm out there! And be sure to check on family and neighbors who are elderly or otherwise vulnerable to the cold.
I Am Thankful For:
Sunlight reflecting off the falling snowflakes
Coming in out of the cold
Pink clouds at sunset
Texts from my daughter that make me laugh
Reading before I fall asleep
Remote start
A pot of homemade gumbo
Completing a craft project
Crisp Winter mornings
A fresh batch of books from the library
Feeling pretty
A shrimp po' boy
New pens
Being prepared for the coming storm
For years, mornings meant rushing through preparations. Thinking about what needed to be done. Making sure everyone was up, dressed and ready for school. Remembering who needed to be where. All that activity somehow felt like proof I was doing life right. If I was resting, something must be forgotten or going undone.
Midlife has had a way of changing that.
Now, I have time to wait while the water boils and the tea steeps. To sit in the morning quiet, savoring the warmth of the cup in my hands and that first sip. This slowness isn’t laziness—it’s self care.
Not every morning looks like this. Some days are still busy. But when it does, it helps me remember what's important. It reminds me to be present here, in this moment. And that starting slowly is still starting.
I Am Thankful For:
A productive week
Getting outside my comfort zone
Learning something new
Kind, welcoming people
A nice cup of London Fog
Slow mornings
Sunday breakfast
Book Club day
Pineapple
My ridiculous dogs
Morning meditation
Seeing deer as I leave the house
Waking up late
Diet Dr Pepper
Reruns of my favorite shows
I Am Thankful For:
Going back to sleep
Simple, but delicious, meals
Beginnings
Morning routines
Panthers are going to the playoffs
Reading to my grandson
My son trimming the dogs' nails for me
Good news/Bad news situations
Lip balm
A yummy pasta dish
Feeling motivated
When my daughter calls because my grandson wants to talk to me on the phone
Seeing progress
My cute pups