Showing posts with label acts of kindness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label acts of kindness. Show all posts

Friday, October 10, 2014

Are You Mean?

It seems to be an epidemic recently... a sort of social game to try to belittle, mock, make fun of, and say hurtful things about people - both those in the public eye and not.

 

We stand in line at the grocery store next to the magazine pointing out which celebrities have cellulite or the "worst beach bodies" and the like.  Mocking pregnant women for how much weight they gain, or obsess over how quickly they lose the "baby weight".  We read online gossip about who is cheating on who and which marriage is on the rocks.  We watch television shows discussing who wore which outfit better, or who looked fabulous (or not) on the red carpet to some awards show.

We post cruel comments on social media and under blogs. Hiding behind a keyboard to be our most hateful, judgemental selves. 

Women gather and complain about their husbands. To talk about each other. Whisper across grocery carts, in school pick up lanes, and around corners in church corridors about what this one or that one wore/did/said.

We give others less than flattering labels. We focus on their short comings.  Point our their flaws.We build ourselves up, try to cover our insecurities - by tearing down others.

And then we wonder why our children bully. We can't tell them to "be nice" and then act the way we do.  Children learn by example. 

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It's time to break the pattern!  I challenge you today to only be kind and encouraging.  Build someone up by complimenting them.  Sit on your hands or bite your tongue when you feel hurtful, negative, judgemental words rising up in you.  Refuse to take part in gossip about others.  Speak love.

Are you in?  If so, leave a comment letting me know!  



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Tuesday, August 5, 2014

What If Today

What if today...

You smiled at everyone you saw
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You thought only positive things about yourself
You told someone "Thank you"
You paused to be thankful for something... anything
You treated everyone as if they were the most important person you were going to speak to all day
You looked at your To-Do list in terms of "Get to" instead of "Have to"
 You took 5 minutes to do something you truly enjoy 
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You told someone you love them
You really listened
You let someone go in front of you - either in a line or in traffic
You cut yourself some slack
You did something silly
You did a chore for someone else?



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