Sunday, December 15, 2024
Thursday, December 12, 2024
Thankful Thursday: December 12, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
My husband
New slipcovers
Candy canes
Lunch with my husband
New throw pillows
Hershey Kisses
Christmas shopping with my husband
Time in a bookstore
Important conversations
My husband's chili for Sunday dinner
Getting back to bookclub
When someone gifts me homemade treats
A surprise shipment of Laura Geller makeup
Shrimp tacos
Sunday, December 8, 2024
Thursday, December 5, 2024
Thankful Thursday: December 5, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
A day spent with my daughter
A little treat for myself
Thanksgiving leftovers
A brand new month
My rice cooker
Christmas decorations
A crockpot full of homemade soup
Books as presents
Car rides with my husband
A light coating of snow
Monday, December 2, 2024
Beginning December
Here we are. The last month of 2024. December is the time to look back at the year we've been through. Take a moment to savor the memories of the good times. Learn a lesson or two feom the not-so-good times. And begin to dream, hope, and plan for the year to come.
One of my beautiful nieces is celebrating het 26th birthday today. It's hard to believe that little blonde child who grew up alongside my son is now a grown woman with a masters degree. She's pretty amazing.
I'm hoping to get out one evening to see one of the light displays near here. There are two to choose from. One is at the North Carolina Arboretum. The other is at a local park. We usually go to the smaller one. We used to get hot cocoa for the whole family, get in the car and go enjoy the light show almost every year. Even though our "children" are now adults, I still enjoy going to see the lights. Heck - it was probably even more for me back then! 😁
Christmas is going to be a little different this year. Less family at our annual Christmas eve dinner. Not for any bad or sad reasons. Just because of circumstances and other plans. But we'll make the most of it and enjoy a quiet holiday.
The Man of the House usually has the week from Christmas eve to New Years off from work. But this year their production demands are such that the company will need to be open that week. That's going to feel strange only having him home for a couple of days at each holiday. But it might help to decrease that sense of lost time for that last week of December.
This month I am reading "West With Giraffes" by Linda Rutledge for book club. I am also reading "The Invisible Hour" by Alice Hoffman and whatever else strikes my fancy. Maybe I'll sneak in a holiday themed book.
My goals for December are simple:
- Decorate for Christmas
- Send Christmas cards
- Bake cookies
- Finish 2 crochet projects before Christmas
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Goodbye to November
Whoa. Just... whoa. November felt like the longest, shortest month in the history of months. One minute I was celebrating my birthday on the first, and now - in the blink of an eye - we're here at the end. With so much happening in between that it must have been longer than a few quick weeks.
This month was crazy busy.
My birthday was nice. Didn't get up to too much celebrating since I was barely 2 weeks out from my knee surgery. I had hoped to go for a hike somewhere, but between the area still recovering from Hurricane Helene and my knee - that wasn't happening.
My sister came to visit and it was such a comfort having her here and getting to hang out and catch up. I miss her all of the time, but especially now that she's on the other side of the country.
My daughter started having a lot of stomach pain and nausea one weekend. She went to the doctor and they discovered that her liver enzymes were through the roof, causing her to end up in the ER. That resulted in four days, one surgery to remiver her gall bladder, and and endoscopy procedure to clear stones from her bile duct. Fortunately she is recovering well and felling better.
The Man of the House headed to Hatteras Island on the Outer Banks for the week of our anniversary. We relaxed on the beach and did some fishing, reading, and general unwinding. One day we took the ferry over to Okracoke Island where we rented a skiff and spent the day exploring a deserted island and fishing in the sound.
The month wound up with Thanksgiving. The kids and grandkids were here. It was loud and wonderful. And of course, there was too much food. On Black Friday, the Female Offspring and I hit the stores early and spent the day getting some of our Christmas shopping done.
I would like to hope that December will be slower and less hectic. But let's be honest - it probably won't.
How was your November?
Thursday, November 28, 2024
Sunday, November 24, 2024
Thursday, November 21, 2024
Thankful Thursday: November 21, 2024
Sunday, November 17, 2024
Thursday, November 14, 2024
Thankful Thursday: November 14, 2024
Sunday, November 10, 2024
Thursday, November 7, 2024
Thankful Thursday: November 7, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Another year
Birthday cards
Take-out from my favorite chicken place
Birthday gifts
Funny coffee mugs
A pretty new honey dispenser
Time with family
Birthday cake
Homemade soups
The ability to be flexible with my time
My daughter is going to be ok
My sweet grandsons
Family
Focusing on what I am able to control
Monday, November 4, 2024
Can You Believe It's November?
- Do knee exercises every day
- Have Christmas cards ready to mail by December 1st
- Decorate for Christmas
Sunday, November 3, 2024
Thursday, October 31, 2024
Thankful Thursday: October 31, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Getting some rest
White cheddar popcorn
Realizing something you have been looking forward to is getting close
Having dinner dropped off
Lazy Sunday
Starting to feel a little bit like myself
Texting with my cousin
First trip out of the house since surgery
A good post-op checkup
Plans made
Stopping for breakfast
Early voting
Conversations with neighbors
Little Pumpkin hats
Wednesday, October 30, 2024
Goodbye, October
What. A. Month!
October was filled with challenges. Looking back, it feels like a blur. It seems as if there is so much to say and so little to say all at the same time.
The month began with our area starting the recovery from the destruction of Hurricane Helene and the floods that brought to western North Carolina. Those first couple of weeks - every day just blended in to the next.
We finally had our power restored on Day Twelve. There were cheers heard throughout our neighborhood that evening as everyones lights came on. Because we are on a well, once our power was restored - we also had water restored. After almost two weeks without, you have a new gratitude for being able to flush a toilet with the push of a lever, flip on a light switch, and take a warm shower.
Our internet came back for about two days mid- month before going back out again. Optimum hasn't been very good about communicating any sort of updates or information and at this point no one seems to have any idea when service will be restored.
That weekend, the kids and grandkids came for a dinner and to celebrate the Man of the House's birthday. There was white chili, corn muffins, and banana pudding. Best of all - it was an afternoon just enjoying having our family together.
The Man of the House and our son had planned to go to Charleston for a fishing trip this month. With everything going on after the storm they considered canceling, but since they had elected not to get the insurance, they would be unable to get a return of the money paid for the rental. So, instead of just the two of them going - I brought the dogs and we tagged along. We even had our daughter and the grandsons come along. It turned into a nice weekend of just getting away from all the stress and chaos we had been dealing with.
On the 18th, I had my knee surgery. The Man of the House drove me to the surgery center early that morning, before the sun came up. I was extremely nervous before the procedure, but it all went well. I was surprised by the amount of nausea I had after coming out of the amnesia, and the pain was much more than I expected. My recovery isn't going as quickly as I would hope. But let's be honest - it was unreasonable to expect I would be completely back to normal in less than two weeks.
I had my follow-up appointment on Monday and things are healing well. The stitches are out. Continuing pain/discomfort is normal, but should continue to improve little by little. I was given some exercises to do for strengthening the knee.
The Man of the House has been my absolute rock star through the entire situation. He nursed me through the nausea and pain of that first afternoon. In the following days, he took over my share of the house work, all of the cooking, grocery shopping, caring for the dogs, and helping me as needed. All while continuing to carry all of his usual responsibility, including those of overseeing the company's return to normal production after the hurricane temporarily shut it down. I couldn't have done this without his care and support.
And that was the month in a nutshell. How was your October?
Sunday, October 27, 2024
Thursday, October 24, 2024
Thankful Thursday: October 24, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Surgery went well
Being back home
Pain medication
My amazing husband
Sunny Autumn days
My dad dropping off lunch
The first post-surgery shower
A visit from my daughter and grandsons
Cute Halloween earrings
Pumpkin scented candles
Days spent resting
Gummy bears
Pumpkin Spice tea
Sunday, October 20, 2024
Thursday, October 17, 2024
Thankful Thursday: October 17, 2024
Sunday, October 13, 2024
Thursday, October 10, 2024
Thankful Thursday: October 10, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
A generator
A cup of hot tea
Time with my grandbabies
A long, hot shower
My husband's birthday
The power coming back on
Being able to wash dishes
Flushing the toilet at the push of a button
Having the means to restock the fridge
A home cooked meal
Washing a load of clothes
Cleaning up the house
Sunday, October 6, 2024
Thursday, October 3, 2024
Thankful Thursday: September 3, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Getting prepared
Books and yarn
A heads up from a friend
My husband home safe before the storm starts
My home is undamaged
People helping each other
Finally getting some texts through
My family is all safe
Cooking on the grill
Catching up with neighbors
Getting a shower
A cup of coffee
Acquiring some groceries
A hot cup of tea
A warm meal
Getting gasoline for the cars and generator
A glimmer of hope
Monday, September 30, 2024
Good Riddance, September
I'm not even sure where to start with trying to reecap the month of September. This was meant to be my month to Prepare. And for a while I was making pretty good progress.
I was getting my house in order to prepare for my knee surgery in October. Getting things cleaned and organized. Decorating for Autumn. Things weren't moving along quite as quickly as I hoped, but I was happy with the progress I was making.
Then we got to the last week of September...
On the afternoon of September 25th, it began raining. Over the next twenty-four hours, the area of North Carolina where I live received record rainfall. Some areas were flooding. It was a bit of a mess. But that wasn't the big problem.
The big problem was that Hurricane Helene was about to make landfall in Florida and head our way. It's path was just west of us, putting us on the east side if the storm where the heaviest rainfall occurs. Rain we didn't need on top of what had just fallen.
It rained throughout the day of the 26th. And in the early morning hours of Friday, September 27th, Helene unleashed her fury on our mountains. It was worse than we could have imagined.
In our immediate neighborhood, trees and power lines are down. We have no power, no water, and no internet service. Part of our road has washed away, but is fortunately still passable. Cell phone service is extremely spotty and virtually nonexistent at my house. I'm posting this while sitting in a parking lot where I was able to find a signal.
As crazy as things are for us right now, we are considering ourselves fortunate. Our home isn't flooded and doesn't have a tree through the roof. We have been in touch with family to determine that everyone is OK. We've been able to cook some on the grill and a propane burner. We have been able to get out and get some more bottled water and some groceries.
So many others in the area are suffering much more than we are right now. Homes have washed away or been destroyed by landlides and falling trees. Lives have been lost. I don't think is possible to overstate how much this area is hurting.
Thursday, September 26, 2024
Thankful Thursday: September 26, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
My dog had a good check-up
Pumpkin loaf
Lipstick
Crossing several things off my to-do list
Homemade soup
Being able to laugh at myself
A new stove
Texting with my daughter
Apple pie
Leaves falling outside my window
Football and snacks
A slow cooker full of chili
Starting over
Freshly painted nails
Sunday, September 22, 2024
Thursday, September 19, 2024
Thankful Thursday: September 19, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Knowing what to expect next
Appointment scheduled sooner than expected
A glass of wine
Talks with my sister
Goodies from my cousin in Canada
A short visit with my grandson
Going out to dinner with my husband and son
Baking a cake
Rainy days
Autumn decor
Time to read
Productive days
Monday, September 16, 2024
Prepare
September is typically a quiet month for me. I know, I already mentioned that in my "Hello, September" post. I also talked about how I plan to use this month to take care of some things before the last three always-busy months of the year begin.
That's why I have chosen PREPARE as my word for September.
I will be preparing my Etsy for a reopening. I'm hoping to have it ready to by the first week in October. I'm creating a new logo, a new heading for the shop, Facebook and the shop blog. I'm taking new product photos. And all the other little details that need to be taken care of before I can declare it to be back in business.
I'm preparing the house for the fall holidays. This mostly involves packing away all the little summer touches that have been on display for the past 4 months and putting out all my pumpkins and other fall decor. The fall accents will be around until the end of November/beginning of December when we decorate for Christmas.
I'm trying to prepare meal ideas for football Sundays. My usual go-to meals of chili or Gumbo are going to be making less frequent appearances thanks to my GERD. I'm looking for some easy meals that are comforting, but less irritating to my delicate system. Even better if they can go in the slow cooker. (Any ideas?)
I also want to prepare myself for the last quarter of 2024. I'm hoping to have some definitive answers about what needs done for my knee and prepare for that to take place before the end of the year.
What are you doing to prepare for the rest of 2024?
Sunday, September 15, 2024
Thursday, September 12, 2024
Thankful Thursday: September 12, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Ice cream
Pumpkin Spice coffee
A beautiful fall-like day
Getting my yearly vaccines
Football Sunday
White chili
Root beer floats
Appointment scheduled
Cute videos of grandson
Candy corn
The peace of not engaging
Finding a new (to me) podcast to listen to
Sunday, September 8, 2024
Thursday, September 5, 2024
Thankful Thursday: September 5, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Air conditioning
My little dog playing while wearing the cone
Apple pancakes with vanilla ice cream
Werthers Maple Creams
Afternoon thunderstorms
Hanging out with my husband
Afternoon nap
Homegrown tomatoes
A quiet day
My husband making a smoothie for me
Steaks cooked on the grill
My dog's eye is better
Learning skills for the future
Monday, September 2, 2024
Hello, September
It's here!! September has finally arrived! Fair warning - I am breaking out ALL the Autumn-ness. Yes, I know it's technically still summer until later this month. But I have been stifling the urge for all things pumpkin for the past couple of weeks. So, now that it's September, I am letting it run wild.
September is always a quiet month for us. We don't have any immediate family birthdays this month. And no major holidays. It's the quiet before the storm. A shirt break before the months that are jam packed with our birthdays, anniversary, and the holidays begin.
With that in mind, I plan to use this month to Prepare for the upcoming months. That's why I have chosen Prepare as my word for September. It's time to take care of some things before life potential gets crazy during the last three months of the year.
The only books on my Reading list for September are "Tangled Hearts" by Sara McClaflin and "Everyone in My Family Has Killed Someone" by Benjamin Stevenson. I am taking part in the virtual book tour for "Tangled Hearts". "Everyone in My Family Has Killed Someone" is our book club selection for September. After that, I'm going to do a little mood reading and open whatever my little book heart desires.
My big project for September is getting my Etsy shop ready to reopen next month. I'm switching up my business model just a little. And hoping I can avoid the stress and anxiety it was causing me when I shut things down a year ago
My Goals for September:
- Decorate the house for Autumn
- Prepare Etsy shop for reopening in October
Sunday, September 1, 2024
Friday, August 30, 2024
August Ends
Is anyone else feeling like August was just a complete blur? I honestly feel as if this month was about two weeks long!
My father's birthday was earlier this month. We celebrated with a lunch at his favorite fish place. Last year, we found his biological mother's family just a few months before and I gave him a framed photo of her for his birthday. This year, I was able to give him a framed photo of his biological father.
I had the MRI on my knee in mid-August. The results weren't exactly what I was expecting. There was no tear to the meniscus. But that didn't mean I was out of the woods. I have some seriously messed up cartilage in there as well as a couple of cysts. And a few "loose bodies" (probably pieces of cartilage.) I am probably looking at arthroscopic surgery to remove the "trash" in my knee and see if any repairs are possible to the cartilage. Waiting on the orthopedic surgeon office to call and schedule my consult.
I also had the follow-up appointment for my endoscopy. There are some changes to the lower esophagus due to reflux, but nothing alarming. I need to continue to make sure my gerd is well managed to avoid further damage and get rechecked in three years. I am also able to try cutting back on the dosage of gerd medication. So, that was all good news!
The oldest grandkid started back to school this month, which means I'm not getting to spend time with him a few days each week anymore. We did some baking during those last couple of weeks: chocolate chip cookies, brownies, and pumpkin muffins.
One of my little dogs hurt his eye earlier this week. I was out running errands and when I came home I noticed that he was squinting one eye. Looking closer, it seemed a little puffy and had some discharge. Fortunately, I was able to get a same day appointment for him that afternoon. He has a corneal ulcer (probably from a scratch to the eye). We've been having to apply drops a few times a day and he has to wear a cone to avoid further injury. He has a follow-up next week and hopefully it's healed by then.
Also, happening this week: my Canadian cousin and I did some more "together, but apart", cooking. August brings the anniversary of our grandmother's passing. So in her memory, we made one of my cousin's favorite things that Grandma Janina used to make - Racuchy Z Jabłkami (Polish Yeast Apple Pancakes). They were SO delicious!
I can't brag about my goals for August. I still haven't cleaned and reorganized the linen closet. I'm still trying to figure out my morning routine. And while I did write or journal more often this month - it certainly wasn't an every day thing.
All in all, I would say that as far as months go - August gets a C+.
How was your August?
Thursday, August 29, 2024
Thankful Thursday: August 29, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
The full moon
Baking brownies with my grandson
Finishing the first section of my new sweater
Cooler mornings
Pumpkin muffins
A good appointment with the gastrointestinal doctor
Lunch with my dad
A beautiful late summer day
Laundry folded and put away
My son cooking dinner for us
Comfort foods
Catching deer on the security camera
His covid test was negative
The first leaves starting to change
Getting a same day vet appointment
My husband fixing dinner while I'm at the vet
Making Racuchy z Jabłkami (Polish Apple Pancakes) with my cousin
Monday, August 26, 2024
Reset
I'm going to be honest with you - the last several months have felt like a LOT. I'm not going to go over all the details. I've probably already whined about most of them here at one point or another. At first, I felt like I was spinning my wheels. That led to a feeling of being completely mired down and stagnant. Somethings need to change.
And that's why my word for August has been RESET.
I definitely need to Reset my morning routine. It has been feeling stale for a while now. It hasn't been inspiring and invigorating me like it used to, and I find myself getting completely distracted from it on most mornings. So, I completely tossed my usual routine out the window and have just been trying to figure out what works for me and what I need from my morning routine right now.
I've been having a little more quiet time to just sit with my cup of tea. I’ve also been trying to keep time for doing some more journaling, which is something I had struggled with for the past several months. I just can't quite figure out what I want to change, what I want to keep, or how it should look now. (Suggestions?)
My health could use a Reset. I have been eating healthier out of necessity. My stomach issues kind of forced me to do better about that. But there's still room for improvement. I need to be moving more, but my knee has put that on hold. Hopefully after my follow-up with the sports medicine doctor I'll have a better idea what's going on and can make a plan to heal and be healthier.
I have also been struggling since I closed my Etsy shop last year. It never really set right with me how and when it ended. And I didn't think I would miss it as much as I do. So, it's time for a Reset. I am making some changes to my business model and will be reopening my shop sometime in September.
What's something in your life that could use a Reset?
Sunday, August 25, 2024
Thursday, August 22, 2024
Thankful Thursday: August
I Am Thankful For:
One less thing to worry about
A bear in the pear tree
Sleep
Open windows
Egg salad
Day break
A great day for curls
Baking cookies with my grandson
A hawk in the pine tree
Flirting with my husband
A treat from Dairy Queen
Sleeping in
Laughing with my husband
Making plans for our future
Leftovers
Cooler weather
Time spent with my grandsons
Learning nre things
A decision made
Sunday, August 18, 2024
Thursday, August 15, 2024
Thankful Thursday: August 15, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
A cool morning breeze
My grandson making me laugh
A trip to the library
An afternoon cup of tea with a muffin
Turkey burgers
My dad's birthday lunch
A trip to Sam's Club's with my husband
Feeling beautiful
Pictures of Henry
A change in dinner plans that made things easier
Taking a chance
MRI completed
A good Book Club meeting
Two dragonflies hovering over my car
Quick results
A beautiful morning
Not needing to turn on the air-conditioning
Sunday, August 11, 2024
Thursday, August 8, 2024
Thankful Thursday: August 8, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
New opportunities
Being able to talk to my sister
A foggy morning
My dog's zoomies
Dinner out with my husband
A fresh haircut
Pancakes
An afternoon watching Olympic events
Planning for fall
Beans on toast
A morning nap
Healthier pizza
People who make me laugh
A new day
Feeling hopeful
Watermelon
Sunday, August 4, 2024
Friday, August 2, 2024
August Begins
Oh, August. That month which is most definitely still firmly set in summer with all the heat and humidty, and yet we find ourselves leaning forward and squinting just a bit as we think "I'm pretty sure I can see autumn from here".
August is another month of medical appointments. I have a follow-up visit for the endoscopy I had in July. I am scheduled for an MRI on my knee, and a follow up for that. I also think Max is due for a one of his semi-annual checkups at the end of the month. (I should probably double check that and get something scheduled)
My dad's birthday is this month. I know I've said it before - but every birthday we get to celebrate with him has extra meaning ever since we came close to losing him to a heart attack almost five years ago. Every birthday since then feels like a bonus.
August has always felt like a month for fresh new beginnings to me. Maybe that's because it's back to school season. All the new school supplies and clothes as well as a new school year with different classes and teachers. What better time for reset? Which just happens to be my word for August. (more on that in a future post)
My reading list for the month of August includes finishing "Normal Women" by Philippa Gregory, "The Thursday Murder Club" by Richard Osman, and "I Did a New Thing" by Tabitha Brown. I started "Normal Women" some time back, but was unable to finish it before it had to go back to the library. I happened to see that the Kindle version was on sale during Prime Days and snagged a copy. "The Thursday Murder Club" is the Book Club selection for August. And "I Did a New Thing" is from my endless TBR list.
My August Goals include:
- Clean out and reorganize linen closet
- Create a new morning routine
- Journal/Write everyday
Thursday, August 1, 2024
Thankful Thursday: August 1, 2024
I Am Thankful For:
Good results on my endoscopy report
The Olympic opening ceremonies
My new yarn arrived
Catching up with my favorite neighbor
Time spent with my daughter
Cute new stitch markers
Cheering on the home team
A delicious breakfast casserole
A good story
My husband and son going to a movie together
A healthy lunch
Appointments rescheduled
Afternoon reading time
Gold metal gymnastics
Wednesday, July 31, 2024
July Wrap-Up
July was not the month I was hoping or expecting it to be.
I was thinking of a month filled with a few hikes, some long walks with the dogs, and a cookout or two. What I got was thunderstorms, trips to the urgent care, doctor appointments, and more doctor appointments.
The month started off well enough. Our 4th of July "celebration" was small, quiet, and low-key. Just us, the kids, and grandkids. The Man of the House grilled some ribs. (Delicious!) And we indulged in some s'mores. It was lovely.
I got to spend a few days each week with the oldest grandson. And we celebrated our daughter's birthday this month with her family. Those are some bright points in the month since any day spend with my kids and/or grandkids is a good day in my book!
Then things got complicated. I was already scheduled for my long-awaited endoscopy this month. But before I could even get to that appointment I had an entirely new medical situation occur.
One morning after playing a little indoor fetch with the doggos, as I stood up and turned to walk into the other room - I felt a "pop" in my knee. And as I continued to (try to) walk into the dining room, I realized something was definitely wrong. I couldn't walk without excruciating pain in my right knee. In tears, I told the Man of the House that I couldn't walk and probably needed to go to urgent care. While getting dressed and waiting for the office to open, I felt another, smaller popping sensation and at that point the worst of the pain subsided. Throughout the pmorning, the knee continued to ache with regular flares of pain that lit up the knee. A trip to urgent care left me with a knee brace and a referral to orthopedics. That appointment was scheduled quickly and the doctor suspects a torn meniscus. I have an appointment for an MRI in August.
The endoscopy went well. No complications or surprises. They saw no areas of major concern. They took a few biopsies to check things out, but everything came back clear so far. It's good to know there's anything too scary going on in there.
And that's July in a nutshell. How was your month?