Sharing the Love

Happy Valentine's  Day  to  one  and  all ! !

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Today, am I taking a little time to focus on my loved ones.  But I wanted to share a little love with my favorite blog readers also!

So here are some of my favorite love and/or Valentine's day related posts from the past.  Enjoy!

WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEBODY

A DATE A MONTH

THE 14 DAY MARRIAGE CHALLENGE

AS I HAVE LOVE YOU

LAVISH

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY

and this...

ONE SIMPLE TRUTH

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The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Fourteen

Welcome to Day 14 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Congratulations! You have made it through the entire 14 day challenge!

The final challenge is: Date Night!

That's right - schedule a date night with your husband.  Just the two of you!  Since today is Valentine's Day, maybe you already have something special planned for this weekend. (yes, that counts!) If not, schedule some time for just the two of you in the next week or two.  Put it on the calendar and keep it!!

I know with kids and budget constraints, a night out on the town might not be possible.  But don't worry - there are tons of things you can do together at home, or for cheap (even free). There are tons and tons of ideas on the internet.  Here are a few links I have on my Pinterest board that might help you:

50 Things to do Together (other than watch a movie) http://whatyoumakeitblog.blogspot.ca/2013/08/50-things-to-do-other-than-movies.html?m=1

70 Date Night Ideas http://tynicaelyse.blogspot.fr/2013/08/70-date-ideas.html?m=1

100 Ways to Date Your Spouse http://www.mamaslikeme.com/2013/02/100-ways-to-date-your-spouse.html

Top 20 Stay at Home Date Night Ideas http://www.happywivesclub.com/top-20-stay-at-home-date-night-ideas/

I hope you'll take time to leave a comment and tell us what you're doing for date night!  Also, please let me know what you thought of the challenge and how it worked for you and your marriage. 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Thirteen

Welcome to Day 13 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today's challenge is to Do Lunch!

Make your husband a lunch the night before or in the morning for him to take to work.  Or bring lunch to him. 

If he's home today, have a picnic.  Even if the weather is bad you can spread out a blanket and picnic indoors!

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Twelve

Welcome to day 12 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today's challenge is to Put It In Writing!

Leave a little gift, love note, or card where he'll find it sometime during his day!

Tuck a card or note:

• in his underwear drawer
• in his coat pocket
• in the visor of his car
• in his brief case or lunchbag
• under his pillow
• inside the book his reading
• inside his closed laptop
• into the case for his tablet

You can even use a dry erase marker, lipstick, or eye liner to write a love note on the bathroom mirror for him to find as he gets ready for work.

Or stick up post-it notes in various places around the home  (or office?) or in his car for him to find as he goes about his day.

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Eleven

Welcome to Day 11 of The 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

The challenge for the day: Get Touchy-Feely!  See how often you can give your husband a loving touch today.

Give him a quick hug.
Brush your hand across his shoulder as you walk past.
Hold his hand.
A peck on the cheek.
Run your fingers through his hair.
A little pat on the bootie
If he's working at the desk or table, lean up against his back and kiss the top of his head or back of his neck.

Then check back with a comment to let us know all the details. (Well... ok... maybe not ALL the details. *wink wink*)

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Ten

Welcome to Day 10 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

The challenge for today is simple: Be Flirty!

That's right - flirt with your husband!  Wink at him, or blow him a kiss, from across the room.  Let him catch you giving him an admiring look. Send him a couple of flirty texts or emails.  Compliment him.  Use a cheesey pick up line on him.

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Nine

Welcome to Day 9 of  the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today's Challenge: Be Positive!

For the entire day - don't criticize or correct your husband!

If you're as bad about doing this as I am, your tongue might be very sore by the end of the day because of all the times you have to bite it. Ha!

Be sure to check back and let us know how you did with the challenge!

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Eight

Welcome to Day 8 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today's challenge: The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

We've all heard that old saying, right?  Well.. Whether it's an entre, a dessert, or a candy - let's serve him what he likes today!

If you have time to make it for him - great!  If not, that's OK!  There's nothing wrong with stopping by the store or bakery, or picking up take-out from his favorite restaurant.

The Man of the House is crazy for pizza. Guess what we had for dinner? :0)

What is your hubby's favorite food?

Links to MORE of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge:

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge (Intro)

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 1

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 2

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 3 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 4 

 The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 5

 The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 6

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 7 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Seven

Welcome to Day 7 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today you are challenged to Be Helpful!

Do a chore that is usually his responsibility or mark something off his To-Do list. Or, you could even just ask him "What can I do for you today?"!

Be sure to leave a comment. Share how you helped out your husband today!

Links to MORE of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge:

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge (Intro)

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 1

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 2

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 3 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 4 

 The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 5

 The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 6

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Six

Welcome to Day 6 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

The Challenge for today: Send him a text or email during the day to let him know you're thinking about him.

This can be sweet, romantic, flirty, or sexy - what every you are comfortable with.  Send more than one if you want!

Here are a few suggestions to get you started:

• Thank you for being you.
• Thinking about you...
• You're my best friend
• Glad I have you in my life
• I miss you.
• Love you to the moon and back
• You are the best!
• More in love with you than ever!
• Hey sexy... got plans tonight?
• I am one lucky gal!
• You.  Me.  2nite.

 Or use your own original idea! Leave a comment and let us know what your text/email said. 

Links to MORE of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge:

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge (Intro)

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 1

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 2

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 3 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 4 

 The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 5

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Five

Welcome To Day 5 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today's Challenge: Let him know you missed him!

When he walks in the door from work greet him with a big kiss.  (or, if he gets home before you - give him a huge kiss as soon as you walk in the door)

I'll be honest: usually when the Man of the House gets home he is greeted by the dog and/or the grand baby.  While I am either sitting on the couch watching the news, or in the kitchen fixing dinner.  I can certainly take a moment from what I am doing to walk over and let him know I am happy to see him! And I know he appreciates it.

Leave a comment and let us know how your hubby responded to your "Welcome Home" greeting.

Links to MORE of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge:

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge (Intro)

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 1

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 2

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 3 

 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 4 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Four

Welcome to Day 4 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

The challenge for this day: 3 Times A Charm!

Hug and/or Kiss your hubby at least 3 times today - for no reason what-so-ever.  Just you showing him a little random affection.

Leave us a comment and let us know all about your day 4!

Links to MORE of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge:

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge (Intro)

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 1

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 2

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day 3 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Three

Welcome to Day 3 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge

Your challenge for today: Be thankful!

Thank him for all the little things.  If he takes the trash out, washes the dishes, plays with the kids or helps them with homework, pays you a compliment, works hard all day to support your family. Find at least one little thing he does on a day to day basis (more than one: Bonus!) and  Thank him for it!

Don't forget to check back and let us know what you thanked him for - and his reaction.

edited to add:  I thanked the Man of the House for straightening up the house between church and SuperBowl on Sunday. He returned the favor by thanking me for making chicken wings for the big game.  :0) 

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Two

Welcome to Day 2 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

 Today challenge: let's give those men our undivided attention!

Whenever he speaks to you today - STOP whatever you are doing, turn, and look at him.  Really listen to what he's saying - not thinking of your response, or what you're going to do as soon as he's done talking.  Just... listen to him.

Yes. This one can be a little tough.  It requires some awareness and effort. But isn't he worth it?

Be sure to leave a comment and let us know what you did to complete this assignment!

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day One

Welcome to Day One of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today your assignment is to show your hubby a little attention and affection with a relaxing touch!

You could rub his shoulders... or scratch his back... or massage his feet or hands.

He works hard. Take a few minutes to pamper him a little and show him how much you appreciate him!

You may find the perfect time to do this is while watching TV in the evening, or as you're settling into bed getting ready for sleep.

The Man of the House likes to have his scalp massaged.  That's what I did for him!

Leave a comment and let us know what you did to complete the first assignment.