No Backsies

Did you catch that?

Not - "do to other as they do to you" 

But - "as you would have them do".

We shouldn't repay hate with hate.  Wrong doing with wrong doing. 

We can't justify our bad behaviour, or our mistreatment of others, based on how they treat us - or how they act in general.

Instead we should always treat others the way we would want to be treated. 

It's not a matter of repaying what has been done.  It's about setting an example to those around us.