Thursday, February 6, 2014

Learning To Tell Myself No

I have been working my way through the Made to Crave Bible Study through Proverbs 31 Ministries.  I was getting it.. but not "getting it".  I mean... my head was in it. It was logically making sense, the things I was reading. But something still wasn't connecting.



Then I read this one line...

"It's really is about learning to tell myself no and learning to make wiser choices daily" (Made to Crave, Lysa TerKeurst)

Whoa!!!

Sisters, let me tell you -  I was hit by the proverbial lightening bolt at that.  If I was a cartoon me, there would have been a big ol' light bulb sparking up over my head! 

Sometimes I'm a little slow to catch on to things. But, finally... I felt like I got it. That realization of how this applies to not just my food and health, but to my life.

It's not JUST about food!

It's about making wise choices every day.  It's about learning to deny myself.  Not to give in to earthly, sinful impulses.  To humble myself.  To practice self control.  To rely on God's wisdom.

That goes for what I am choosing to put in my mouth.  It goes for whether or not I choose to exercise.

But saying no to unhealthy food and unhealthy practices is the beginning.  Practice.  The launching pad.

Because it also applies to so much more!

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Five

Welcome To Day 5 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today's Challenge: Let him know you missed him!

When he walks in the door from work greet him with a big kiss.  (or, if he gets home before you - give him a huge kiss as soon as you walk in the door)

I'll be honest: usually when the Man of the House gets home he is greeted by the dog and/or the grand baby.  While I am either sitting on the couch watching the news, or in the kitchen fixing dinner.  I can certainly take a moment from what I am doing to walk over and let him know I am happy to see him! And I know he appreciates it.

Leave a comment and let us know how your hubby responded to your "Welcome Home" greeting.

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Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Put A Little Love In Your Home

I found some adorable little Valentine garlands in the dollar spot at Target the other day.  And you know me... I love a bargain! I also love a cute seasonal decor item.  So, I had to get one of each design!


One to show the kitchen window a little love

 


And one to top off my Valentine's mantel!

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Four

Welcome to Day 4 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

The challenge for this day: 3 Times A Charm!

Hug and/or Kiss your hubby at least 3 times today - for no reason what-so-ever.  Just you showing him a little random affection.

Leave us a comment and let us know all about your day 4!

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Monday, February 3, 2014

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Three

Welcome to Day 3 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge

Your challenge for today: Be thankful!

Thank him for all the little things.  If he takes the trash out, washes the dishes, plays with the kids or helps them with homework, pays you a compliment, works hard all day to support your family. Find at least one little thing he does on a day to day basis (more than one: Bonus!) and  Thank him for it!

Don't forget to check back and let us know what you thanked him for - and his reaction.

edited to add:  I thanked the Man of the House for straightening up the house between church and SuperBowl on Sunday. He returned the favor by thanking me for making chicken wings for the big game.  :0) 

Sunday, February 2, 2014

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day Two

Welcome to Day 2 of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!
 Today challenge: let's give those men our undivided attention!

Whenever he speaks to you today - STOP whatever you are doing, turn, and look at him.  Really listen to what he's saying - not thinking of your response, or what you're going to do as soon as he's done talking.  Just... listen to him.

Yes. This one can be a little tough.  It requires some awareness and effort. But isn't he worth it?

Be sure to leave a comment and let us know what you did to complete this assignment!

Saturday, February 1, 2014

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge: Day One

Welcome to Day One of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge!

Today your assignment is to show your hubby a little attention and affection with a relaxing touch!

You could rub his shoulders... or scratch his back... or massage his feet or hands.

He works hard. Take a few minutes to pamper him a little and show him how much you appreciate him!

You may find the perfect time to do this is while watching TV in the evening, or as you're settling into bed getting ready for sleep.

The Man of the House likes to have his scalp massaged.  That's what I did for him!

Leave a comment and let us know what you did to complete the first assignment.

Friday, January 31, 2014

Romancing Him (the 14 day marriage challenge)

What gal doesn't like a little romancing?  Sweet words, a little pampering, a little appreciation, some flirting, maybe a little gift every now and then?  Yeh... me too!



But when was the last time you romanced your hubby?

It's easy to get into the day to day routine of married life and forget to show that awesome man exactly how we feel about him!  That's the perfect time to shake things up a bit. 

I invite all of you to join me on a 14 day challenge to show the man in your life a little love and appreciation!

Each day there will be a new assignment for you to complete.  Don't panic - they are super easy!  And inexpensive (or totally free!)

Now, I have to admit - I will be a day or two ahead of the posted assignments.  Just so the Man of the House doesn't read what I've got planned for him before I do it! (In fact... I have completed Day One by the time this post goes live!)

So, what do you say?  Are you up to the challenge?  If so, leave a comment below and check back tomorrow (February 1st)  for your first assignment!

The 14 Day Marriage Challenge:

Thursday, January 30, 2014

A Spirit of Gratitude: January 30


This Week I Am Thankful For:
  • The male offspring's 1st semester grades
  • Blog hops where I can promote my posts
  • Hall's cough drops
  • The sound of birds as the sun rises
  • Cuddling on the couch with the Man of the House while we watch TV
  • Cute Valentine decorations for $1 in the Target Dollar Spot
  • Watching the cat play
  • The Grand Baby
  • Pictionary with the family
  • Hot cocoa with marshmallows
  • Singing in the car at the top of my lungs
  • Fresh fruit - even in the middle of winter
  • Watching snow fall all day
  • The Man of the House getting home safely through the snow

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Hold It!

How is it that all my library holds always seem to become available at once?

It doesn't seem to matter if I start out as second in line, fifth in line, or twenty-something in line. Whether some are paper copies at the local branch or electronic copies from the digital library. I wait patiently and then BAM! - All of a sudden I have a huge pile of books waiting for me.

And all those books must be read within two to three weeks, because there are more hold requests waiting behind me - meaning no renewals, sorry!

So, if you will please excuse me, I've got a lot of reading to do!

Monday, January 27, 2014

Just One, Just This

One day...
One hour...
One minute...
One breath...
One prayer...
at at time
This day...
This hour...
This minute...
This breath...
This prayer...
Jesus, Guide me in the Father's will.

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Two Years

My sweet, adorable, crazy, hilarious little grand son is TWO years old today!

Seems like just the other day I was writing about how I was completely Head Over Heels with this sweet new life.

Now here we are.. two whole years later.

He's into everything (and I mean e-ve-ry-thing!!)

He runs full speed from the moment he gets up in the morning until he falls asleep at night. 

He talks up a storm (gets that from his mommy!)

He has the most precious little curls

He makes me laugh every single day.

He has his grandpa completely wrapped around his finger.

I love him bunches and bunches (in case you couldn't guess that)

Happy Birthday Little One!!


Friday, January 24, 2014

Fearless Love

"There is no fear in love.  But perfect love drives out fear..." ~ 1 John 4:18

"Perfect love". 

The type of love that sends Its own Son to take the punishment for countless sins.  

The type of love that redeems.

The kind of love that remains strong in all circumstances.

There is no fear in that love.

Only... love.



Overwhelming.

All consuming.

Leaving no room for anything else.

No room for fear.

Pushing the fear out.  Taking over everything.

Until there is nothing but that perfect love.