"Pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind" ~ C S Lewis (Mere Christianity)
Thinking I can handle things independent of God.
That I've got this.
That I knows what is best for me.
Thinking of MY wants.. MY feelings. Above others.
Holding grudges because I am too proud to let go of the hurt and just forgive.
It all comes down to the sin of Pride.
Humility is the answer.
Humbling myself before God so that I am able to love Him with all my heart, all my soul, all my strength, and all my mind.
Thinking less of myself and more of others so I can love them as myself.
Letting go of the pride.
Letting in the love.